The Best Ways to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

Sex toys have become as common a conversation piece as the weather, but it’s still tricky to ask our partners whether or not they’d be down to try a cock ring or mini vibe. Sex toys can be intimidating, almost scary, to those of us who’ve never dreamed of putting something with a motor near our nether regions. And others associate sex toys with filling some kind of void or fixing an inadequacy in our current sexual situations, which are NOT good feelings for foreplay.

Fortunately, there are ways to side-step the insecurities and taboo that sex toys can bring, and we’ve compiled some of our favorite and most effective tips just for you!

1. Use Your Words
“But we don’t NEED one.” Heard this before? It’s not uncommon for men or women to feel as though sex toys are made to take the place of human interaction and body parts, but almost every sex toy on the planet can be enjoyed as a couple. So keep that in mind when you’re thinking about how to broach the subject and be sure to include your partner in the idea.

“I read that using a vibrator while we have sex can help me orgasm faster! I’d love to try that tonight!”

“I think it’d be super-hot to wear a butt plug next time we’re together – what do you think?”

“Thinking about you using a sex toy makes me so horny – can we try one sometime?”

The most important goal is to make sure your partner understands that sex toys are sexual enhancements – NOT replacements – and that whatever new gadget or gizmo makes it into the bedroom is for both of your pleasures. These kinds of intimate products add sensations and stimulation in ways our fingers and bodies simply can’t, and that’s what makes them so exciting – and SO worth trying.

2. Shop Together
Shopping is a treat for some and a drag to others, but when it comes to picking out something sexy to use together, you HAVE to check out your options as a team! If you or your partner isn’t part of the selection process, one of you will miss out on an important bonding experience that helps set the scene (and the mood) for what might happen later behind closed doors. Maybe she would have liked the blue vibrator instead of the pink. Or maybe he would have wanted to try that cock ring you saw but didn’t buy.

Perusing the shelves of lingerie, cock rings, mini vibes and other sexy playthings gives you both the opportunity to explore and see what catches your eye – you might be surprised at what strikes you!

Plus, shopping together gives you both a chance to learn a little more about each other’s curiosities and kinks, which builds intimacy almost as fast as anticipation. And once you get comfortable shopping for sex gear together, heading to the store (or even simply scrolling through adult shopping sites online) can feel like foreplay without anyone’s clothes even hitting the ground.

3. Start Small
If you’re new to sex toys, or if your partner is open but still not convinced, it might be a good idea to start with the basics before moving onto something next-level. Think about what you’re curious to try together (Anal play? Clit stimulation during doggy style? Maybe a vibrating ring?) and check out your options. Some products are made to be disposable, something you can try once to see if you like it – and then toss if you don’t. Most sex toys have beginner-level versions that are reusable but cost a lot less, which takes some of the pressure off of choosing the perfect one.

Stretchy one-size-fits-most cock rings are low-cost, low-commitment, and typically easier for beginners to try. Bullets, mini vibes, and small hand-held massagers are great starter vibrators for stimulating the clitoris, nipples, testicles, taint – pretty much anywhere that feels sensitive to the touch. Vibrating tongue rings or vibrating penis rings are also fun and inexpensive options for those of us just starting out on our sex toy adventures.

Most of us wouldn’t jump in the deep end before learning to doggy paddle or put the pedal to the metal during a DMV driving test. The same goes for sex toy shopping: ease your way into it and try to keep the pace of your partner. Work your way up to the next level as a team and enjoy the ride along the way!

4. Sharing is Caring
No matter what the package might say, most vibrators can – and SHOULD! – be used on men AND women. Mini vibes are great for her clitoris, but don’t forget that he might like to feel the buzz on his balls during a blowjob. And vibrating rings feel great worn around the penis and testicles, but try wrapping the ring around a finger and touching her nipples or teasing her lips.

CAUTION: This is only safe to do when you and your partner have been tested and declared STI-free, because you’ll inevitably be swapping more than just each other’s sex toys while you’re at it. And please keep in mind that anything that goes in or around your anal area should be washed thoroughly before it goes anywhere near the rest of your body to avoid spreading icky bacteria where you don’t want it! #themoreyouknow

5. Learn by Doing
No one wants to be schooled in the bedroom (even if we could use a tip or three) and that especially applies when sex toys are part of the plan. One of you might know a little more about vibrators than the other, but don’t take on the teacher role just yet – unless that’s part of the fantasy, of course!

Open each toy and read the instructions together. Part of the fun is checking them out, turning them on, and watching each other’s faces change as you experiment with what feels good, what feels “meh,” and what feels “ohmigoddontstop.”

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Sex Outside the Box! – How to Revive a Boring Sex Life

Sex is great and we all love to do it, but sometimes we get stuck in a bedroom rut that no amount of hugging, kissing and humping can get us out of. Fortunately you’re not alone – it can be super-easy to fall into a routine that takes some of the spontaneous excitement out of our favorite intimate past time. So to take some of the pressure off; we’ve compiled a list of quick and easy tip to help freshen up your love life fast. And you can try some of them tonight!

1. Switch Positions
Certain sexual positions feel better than others and oftentimes we tend to stick with the ones that we’re most confident with. Whatever the reason – maybe we like the way our bodies look in doggy style or we know that missionary gives us guaranteed orgasms – doing it the same way over and over can simply leave us wanting more.

We’re not talking trying a pretzel-like yoga position or trying every page out of the Kama Sutra, but even adding a simple position that you don’t usually try can bring enough variety to your sex session to amp up the intimacy.

So think about your routine. Is it missionary, spooning, then finishing on top? Or starting on top and finishing doggy? (Or is it missionary all the way every day?) Change the pattern and incorporate something you typically skip – you never know what a little spontaneity might do for your (or your partner’s) excitement level!

2. Do It Someplace New
We all know that sex typically happens in bed. (We hear some people even sleep there, too!) But what would happen if you laid down a blanket on the bathroom floor or used your (clean) kitchen table as a stage?

There’s something intensely erotic about doing the deed in unconventional places, but that doesn’t mean you have to think TOO far outside of the box. Subtle changes like doing it in front of a mirror or propping yourself up against the kitchen counter can be enough to feel like you’re banging for the first time.

Different surfaces, different sights, different scents – almost every sense gets triggered and inspired when you’re having sex in a new part of the house, so no need to pump yourself up about getting it on in public. That can come later, once you’re a little more comfortable with the idea, but keep in mind that it’s not exactly legal. So don’t tell anyone we told you to try it. [wink wink]

3. Try a Sex Toy
Sex toys are incredible sexual enhancers that can stimulate parts of the body that fingers, hands and other body parts simply can’t. Sex toys are new territory for some people and may be a bit intimidating at first, but fortunately there’s a plethora of products made for couples to enjoy together that enhance the experience for both. (Sex toys can actually make it easier for men and women to have orgasms – sometimes for the very first time!)

Vibrating rings and vibrating erection rings (also known as cock rings) are great for helping prevent premature ejaculation and helping him last longer during sex. The vibrating motor stimulates her clitoris at the same time so she can get closer to orgasm while he stays nice and hard.

Mini vibes and massagers are perfect additions to certain sex positions where some clitoral vibration can help her reach orgasm. Finger vibes are easy to use and don’t get in the way, while wand massagers and bigger vibrators can be a little bulky but help get the job done with much more power.

And there are all kinds of more advanced sex toys you can test out, too, like feather ticklers, anal plugs and sexy bondage gear as seen in Fifty Shades of Grey. So start with some beginner-level toys and work your way up to the big leagues – the journey will be super-fun and super-sexy, plus you and your partner will build even stronger intimacy along the way!

4. Role Play
This is a classic tip, but sometimes roleplaying can feel a little overwhelming to those of us who might be a little shy. So start simple – don’t worry about costumes and don’t try to pretend you’re some flirty cocktail waitress or suave piano man picking up a “stranger” at the bar.

Start by testing out a different technique – maybe you’re usually passive and let your partner make most of the moves. Make your mindset, “I know what I want, and all I want is YOU” and give your partner a thrill. (Just make sure you two talk about the idea first so you’re both on the same page!) Take charge and see how it feels to be a tad dominant.

Or try spending a night together where intercourse isn’t an option. Like you’ve just met and want to save the official “deed” for a special night. This will let you both get creative with pleasuring each other in ways that often can be forgotten when you’re so focused on the final “goal.” Touching, caressing, licking, cuddling – enjoy each other like you’ve only been dating for a week or two and see what kind of spark you might re-ignite.

5. Laugh
We take sex SO SERIOUSLY sometimes, to the point of almost forgetting to have FUN. And there are all kinds of understandable reasons for it – pressure to please, pressure to perform, self-consciousness and insecurity. We’ve all felt at least one (if not all) of those at some point while naked with a partner. But if you both can remember (and communicate) that you’re in it together as a team, you’ll find the stress and anxiety melt away and possibly even replaced with comfort and closeness.

Believe it or not, there’s a good chance that your partner is feeling the same way you are, so once you share what’s on your mind, you can embark on an entirely new journey together. And if something gets bumped, pinched, knocked over or super messy, all you need to do is laugh together. Because it’s not the end of the world; these kinds of snafus and unexpected events often can help make your sexual experiences unique and special – nothing like that fake stuff you see in the movies!

Have suggestions not listed? Share your tips on how to revive a boring sex life!

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We’ve sent a new sex toy out into the universe and its unique color and shape is out of this world. The Orbit is different from traditional stretchy erection rings because of its distinctive rocket-like silhouette, which provides a wider contact point with the clitoris while maintaining a snug fit that helps prevent premature ejaculation. So not only do couples benefit from longer-lasting sex, but this sex toy for couples also increases her chances of reaching orgasm – it’s the ultimate win-win!

The Orbit is a stretchy vibrating cock ring made of glossy white SEBS – a lab-tested body-safe material that stretches to fit almost anyone – with a unique rocket-like vibrator at the top. Its unique power position provides direct contact to the clitoris, the clitoral hood, and its surrounding sensitive zones with three warp speeds and one pulse mode that couples can toggle through with the push of a button.

The ring itself features a smooth interior that lies flush against the skin for a stay-put fit without the typical tight feeling of most cock rings, yet it feels soft and flexible against delicate skin.  Stretched around either the base of the penis or both the penis and testicles, the Orbit will feel secure – but not uncomfortable – as it helps slow blood flow to keep him harder and last longer.

We had fun incorporating unique spaceship-like design elements that also boosted the Orbit’s functionality, and in the end we wound up with a one-of-a-kind shape with enhanced performance to boot. And as with all stretchy Screaming O products, the Orbit is made using only certified and lab-tested body-safe SEBS to assure a quality, body-safe experience that men and women of all kinds can enjoy.

So strap in and start your better-sex countdown today – the Orbit feels so good it’ll make you see stars!

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The Screaming O Named 2015 Sex Toy Company of the Year!

Jan. 22, 2015

Well look at that, The Screaming O was named this year’s Sex Toy Company of the Year by the biggest media organization in the industry – and now it’s time to celebrate!

This award is reserved for companies that exceed expectations with product design, manufacturing and overall reputation, and this year The Screaming O was chosen as the industry leader! We pride ourselves on our product design and quality control, and this award shows that our hard work is paying off and appreciated by the world!

The Screaming O put several new processes in place to ensure streamlined development, production and shipping and went way outside the box to come up with designs and styles that serve the needs and expectations of our fans. And the response has been incredible – we’ve created four unique stretchy cock rings, some with double isolation designs and others with extended motors for improved clitoral stimulation. And our new Screamin Demon premium silicone mini vibe might be the most popular new product yet!

One thing’s for sure: The Screaming O is committed more than ever to bringing our fans the very best quality at the very best prices, because EVERYONE deserves better, more satisfying (and more fun!) sex.

So toast to The Screaming O, all our supporters and the wonderful world of sex toys – it’s going to be a great year!

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We’re turning cowboys into bucking broncos with the RingO Rangler BandolerO, a brand new vibrating erection ring boasting solid “studs” that keep his six-shooter hard and strong. We took the most popular erection ring from our original RingO Rangler collection and added a powerful motor after so many of you requested a vibrating version! So we decided to turn it up a notch and position the powerful motor vertically for the kind of clitoral contact that’ll make her holler, “Yee-HAW!” We can’t wait ‘til you try it for yourself – the BandolerO is suited for even the biggest outlaws, we promise.

The BandolerO features a powerful three-speed motor with a bonus pulse function and extended ticklers that transfer vibes directly to her sweet spot. And the most exciting part of the design is its reinforced ring, which hugs key penile pressure points to helps prevent premature ejaculation and keep him hard. (Plus it keeps the motor in place.) He stays strong in the saddle while she enjoys targeted stimulation with every stroke – the BandolerO makes it easy for couples to enjoy a wild ride in the hay!

The BandolerO is easy to use and is the perfect solution for couples looking for a little extra ‘hug’ around his package, so hop on and hold on tight! And for the record, the BandolerO is made of phthalate-free, latex-free SEBS and can be completely submerged in water for sexy shenanigans down at the water hole.

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Tomorrow is International Women’s Day, a holiday that some of you might not have known existed until 10 seconds ago. On March 8, women around the world gather to celebrate their accomplishments while raising awareness of social, political and economic issues that impact women locally and internationally. Each year, the United Nations dedicates a particular theme to the day and this year’s is Inspiring Change, encouraging advocacy for positive advancement in all kinds of ways – from challenging social norms to motivating personal growth.

This theme hits our hearts especially deeply, as this kind of personal evolution is what drives The Screaming O. Inspiration for change starts with one; it takes just one person to ignite a conversation that links men and women with a united mindset and a common goal. Our common goal is to spread a positive message about female sexuality by making pleasure products fun and friendly for women of all lifestyles. It’s a philosophy that supports the foundation of The Screaming O, and we’re proud to be a part of tomorrow’s global celebration.

The first International Women’s Day was held in 1911 in five countries, which rallied more than a million men and women to campaign for the right to work, vote, and to end discrimination. Now it’s an official holiday in more than 27 countries, with events that include men in the celebration and encourage them to honor the various women in their lives – mothers, daughters, sisters, colleagues, wives, and more.

Some men like to celebrate by gifting the special women in their lives with small tokens of appreciation, and since we like to push the envelope a tad, we suggest making sure those small tokens of appreciation vibrate.

Because there’s nothing more empowering than feeling comfortable and confident from the inside out, and The Screaming O makes it easy to explore, experiment and celebrate safely – and have fun doing it!

So ladies: Give yourself the power of pleasure and own your intimate rights. Pick a colorful mini vibe for yourself or choose a vibrating ring or couples sex toy to enjoy with your partner and do your part to destroy the stigma that surrounds female sexuality. Remember, it starts with one!

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‘Tis the season of ultimate proposals and chances are you have at least one friend getting hitched this summer – and that means you’ve gotta pick the perfect bachelorette party gift! And that’s why we’ve just released the BlingO – a clever new novelty that puts a vibrating twist on a romantic tradition.

This vibrating ring for couples features a super-powered motor hidden inside a super-soft “diamond” and gives couples a bold way to celebrate their engagement. Fun to wear and even more fun to use, the BlingO is perfect for an (in)decent proposal or a fun and flirty bachelorette gift that will leave the bride-to-be blushing from head to toe – in a good way!

This unique stretchy erection ring gives newlyweds a charming introduction to couples toys, offering erection enhancement for him and a powerful vertically positioned motor that stimulates with some serious bling. And for couples already reveling in marital bliss, the BlingO helps couples vow to make every night feel like a wedding night, reigniting the spark with some vibrating sparkle.

Everyone loves the BlingO’s lighthearted design, from grooms-to-be hoping to get a giggle out of their fiancées to couples looking for a sex toy that celebrates their union. So put a ring on it and make wedding season sexy!

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Today is Fat Tuesday, a day commonly dedicated to getting relatively obliterated on booze and engaging in the kind of wild party scene that only a frat house would envy – but have you ever wondered why we do it?

Much to the dismay of some of you, it’s not exactly a part of history to take one too many shots of Malibu and accidentally (well, intentionally at the time) flash your chest to your coworkers in exchange for some plastic beads. But there is a tiny nugget of truth behind that, so we’re here to help explain how you can celebrate Mardi Gras to the fullest and feel confident knowing that whatever ended up happening was an ode to history. Religious history, specifically.

WHAT??!

Yep.

Rewind 300-ish years and you’ll find men and women in Louisiana (and now in cities around the world) celebrating Mardi Gras as the final day before Lent, a Christian custom that involves (among other things) 40 days’ penance, during which observers give up a particular enjoyable indulgence. People commonly give up meats or sweets for Lent and live in moderation (including fasting) for more than a month, which is one of the reasons why the day before Day 1 is dedicated to mass consumption…and everything else that comes along with it. (Hence the name, Fat Tuesday.)

In the olden days, meat, cheese and eggs were the favorite choices of excess, which has evolved to include red wine, beer, shots-shots-shots, and more than a little sex. Which is why Mardi Gras is The Screaming O’s favorite holiday!

And have you noticed how colorful Fat Tuesday becomes? Particular hues represent special symbols of the celebration, which is why all of those beads you find on the streets the day after are so vibrant. Purple stands for justice, green for faith, and gold for power – so pick your favorite Screaming O vibrating ring, mini vibe or couples toy and match the color to your impending Mardi Gras madness!

Now get wild, get colorful and get sexy with The Screaming O and let it all out before you’re technically not allowed to! Toast to titillating conversation, dance for delectable delights, and make this year’s Mardi Gras one to remember with colorful mini vibes, vibrating rings and everything else you need to make sure you get all that mischief out of your system – at least until Easter Sunday, when the 40-day mark is done and the “rules” say you can get back to business!

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Emily Morse, host of the popular Sex With Emily podcast and star of Bravo’s “Miss Advised”, took to the mic this week to talk all about sex toys, and The Screaming O was her No. 1 choice for couples rings and vibes!

Listen to it on iTunes now so you know what we’re talking about!

Emily has tried thousands of sex toys so she can recommend the best of the best to her loyal fans, and when the topic of cock rings and vibrating rings came up, she raved about why men love them – and how they help spice up their sex lives.

“Men love it; it helps them stay harder longer, their penis looks huge, and it has vibration on it so when you have sex with a woman it hits her clitoris in just the right way,” Emily said. “The Screaming O is a good starter, it’s a gateway ring; I always give them to friends, like for house party gifts. The balls feel good when you tuck them up through the ring. You just have to experiment.”

And something special we learned from the show: cock rings are a go-to enhancement tool that men use outside of the bedroom! Our stretchy RingO cock rings give men a sexy “bulge” in their pants that makes it even easier to dress to impress before a night out.

“[The RingO] positions your penis – it’s like a push up bra for your dick,” Emily said. “And now everyone’s going to run out and buy one, but why not? You have to expand our sex life. It should constantly be expanding and [you should be] trying new things, because sex is why we’re here on earth. It’s the most amazing thing you can experience, so you might as well try something different. Try a toy, watch porn, so many couples get into ruts and they need to do something different.”

Emily also suggested trying our FingO finger fitted mini vibe as the perfect beginner vibe for women who need clitoral stimulation to get off.

“I love the FingO and they are pretty reasonably priced,” Emily said. “I love their bullets. Your partner can use it on you or YOU can use it on you. It’s great.”

Well you heard the sexpert! Go out and get some for yourself!

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Bethenny Frankel of “Real Housewives of New York City” fame has a new talk show on the FOX network and she took a lucky couple – and her camera crew – to The Pleasure Chest adult boutique. The adventurous couple was looking for some sex toys and kinky accessories inspired by the “Fifty Shades of Grey” erotic trilogy.

An admitted sex toy novice herself, Frankel enlisted the help of sexpert Sarah to walk them through a series of fun floggers, whips, handcuffs and other kinky bondage stuff that help couples live out their deepest fantasies.

And as they checked out some handcuffs the camera crew zeroed in on the telltale packaging of The Screaming O, showcasing its lineup of vibrating rings, couples toys, and fun cock rings that make perfect conversation starters for couples looking to get it on.

If you haven’t read “Fifty Shades of Grey” yet, you might want to get on your Kindle, iPad or find a bookstore somewhere nearby because there are sex scenes that will inspire you to leave work early and test out your new safe word with your partner. And The Screaming O’s couples toys are the perfect introduction to the world of sex toy joy, and we guarantee It’s Always More Fun With a Screaming O!

Which one will you try today? There’s a lot to choose from so it might not hurt to try more than one – when it comes to sex toys, you can never have too much pleasure!

Watch Bethenny Frankel get spanked at The Pleasure Chest!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=yDxZ4HdD6o8

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