How to Get Your Girl in the Mood!

There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to sex, and the first step is wanting it in the first place. But arousal and sexual desire are affected considerably by so many things: stress, hormones, emotions, time/place, fatigue…you get the idea. And while some men find it easy to break through those unsexy barriers to get it on, women have to work a lot harder to muck through the life-gunk to get their heads in the game.

Many men need only minutes to get hard and ready to go, while women can take up to 20 minutes (or longer depending on the day!) But you can help! Here are some quick tips for helping your lover get on your libido level and ready for some satisfying sex.

1. Make (and Take) It Easy

Women have a lot on their plates each day and often have to juggle multiple hassles at once just to make it home by 6 p.m. That can include work deadlines, kids (if applicable), pets (also if applicable), errands, doctor’s appointments, gym time, b.s. with the boss, rush hour traffic – and the to-do list doesn’t end when she walks in the door. All of these tasks take up valuable brain space, causing frustrating distraction from what she likely would rather be doing (i.e. having sex with you). So surprise her with three of the sexiest words a man can say:

“I got this.”

Pick up her dry cleaning. Deal with the grocery list. Clean the bathroom. Feed the baby. Whatever the task, she’ll feel loved and supported knowing that you thought ahead to handle stuff so she doesn’t have to. And that sense of relief may help make it easier for her to relax and get in the mood for something more than Netflix in bed.

DISCLAIMER: This is NOT a “do the dishes, get a BJ” type of reward system. Helping your partner is a thoughtful expression of love and should be done without expectation. Even the slightest sense of sexual entitlement may turn her off (rightfully so), so keep your intentions genuine, please.

2. Think About Her (and Tell Her So)

Women love to know that their partners are thinking of them, sexually or otherwise. But many men make the mistake of taking this expression too far (ex. dick pic during lunch break) and inadvertently ruin the moment. The sentiment is genuine, we’re sure, but sadly lost in the crassness of sending cellphone porn during work hours. So tone down the message!

Tell her you love her. Tell her you’re thinking about that time she did that thing that made your toes curl. Tell her you can’t wait to see her later. Tell her you want to rub her shoulders before bed. Get creative but try to avoid the gutter.

There’s something special about knowing that you’re on your partner’s mind and it isn’t necessarily because he’s horny and wants to get laid. It can inspire that giggle she might have made during the glorious honeymoon phase and might even inspire a fun response that could lead to the kind of back-and-forth text flirting you used to do in high school. Flirting is one of the first steps toward foreplay…and we all know what can happen from there!

3. Find a Sex Toy Made for Her Pleasure

Many people (women included) don’t know that most women need a little extra sumthin’ to reach orgasm while having sex. And while orgasm doesn’t have to be the ultimate goal, it’s always fun to try new and exciting ways to try to get there faster and easier. That’s where sex toys come in.

Sex toys come in all shapes, sizes, colors…you name it, but for this kind of pleasure we recommend shopping for something small and easy to use. (Especially if it’s her first sex toy.) Look for terms like “mini vibe,” “mini massager,” “bullet,” “clitoral vibe,” and “clit vibe” to find styles that are small, easy to hold, and perfect for stimulating her clitoris while you both get down. And if you know her favorite color or anything else that might help personalize her new vibe, definitely keep it in mind before making the final purchase.

The beauty of this kind of gift is that she can enjoy her new vibrator with you AND when she needs some private relaxation time. The more she masturbates and gets to know her body (and what she likes to do to it) the better your sex life will get. And knowing that you care enough about her pleasure to buy her a special sex toy might warm her heart enough to want to break it in the minute she opens the box. With your help, of course!

‘Ladies’ help these fellas out and comment on what gets you in the mood.

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It’s Week 4 of Masturbation Month and we’ve gotten pretty damn good at this self-love thing. Last week we recommended a sex toy for men that makes HJs and stroke sessions something truly special, and this week we’re turning the tables and giving the gals a sexy gift they should send to themselves. Because you deserve it, ladies – and let’s be honest; your fingers could use a break.

The last few weeks have brought us the Soft-Touch Bullet mini vibe, the award-winning Screaming O Vibrating Ring and the hand-tastic Paco’s Taco™ stroker for men. Now we’re going to shine light on one of the simplest, yet most popular mini vibes on the market – the Fing O® finger-fitted mini massager.

This little gem stretches to fit on any size finger and turns your entire hand into a vibrator. (Yes please!) Most ladies start by using their pointer fingers to get the job done, but the Fing O turns it up several notches to give women the same tactile control but with the enhancement of vibration!

It’s powered by our best-selling Bullet vibrator, which is encased in a super-soft body-safe silicone blend with one of three textures to choose from – Wavy ridges, Nubby dots, and Tingly “fingers.” And it’s reusable with replaceable batteries, so the Fing O will last way longer in the sack than you will – and it’ll always be ready for round 2 (and 3, 4 and 5).

Plus it’s compact, portable and easy to conceal so no one will know what you’ve got up your sleeve (and strapped to your finger). So treat yourself tonight with a BFF that buzzes – you’ve got one more week to make the most of Masturbation Month!

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It’s week 2 of Masturbation Month and we have to imagine that you’ve gotten better acquainted with your nether regions by now – all in the name of celebrating a national holiday, of course. We’re kicking things into second gear and getting you prepared for the next level of self-love, so hold on tight!

Last week we started with the basics and recommended a Soft-Touch Bullet – with 3 speeds and a pulse function to keep things interesting – but this week we’re adding a second sex toy to the mix to make sure you’re making the most of your extremities.

You’ve been graced with two hands, so why on earth use only one while you get busy with yourself? So as you diddle around with your new Screaming O Soft Touch Bullet, take a Screaming O Vibrating Ring in the other hand and add a vibrating twist to the mix. Here’s how:

Ladies: You know what to do with your mini massager. Keep that thing close to your clit at all times and don’t look back. Now take your Screaming O Vibrating Ring (it’s won all kinds of awards, by the way…it’s the ish) and wrap it around the pointer and middle fingers of your free hand with the vibrating motor facing palm-side. Once you flip the switch, the vibration will transfer all the way up your fingers so that when you touch yourself – nipples, stomach, lips, anywhere you like – you’ll feel a titillating tingle that’ll send you over the edge.

And gentlemen: You’ve got your Soft-Touch Bullet in one hand (and on your balls) and your other hand occupied, but there’s still room for a Vibrating Ring to do its thing. Stretch the ring around your shaft and balls with the motor positioned wherever you like it most: under your balls for extra stimulation or, if it’s too much with the Soft-Touch Bullet buzzing, place the motor at the top of your shaft. When you switch it on, you’ll send hands-free vibration up and down your dick that will blow your…mind in minutes.

The Screaming O Vibrating Ring

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It’s that time of year again, when panties drop and pants get a little tighter as we dedicate an entire month to masturbation. Self-love is a special thing and there’s no right or wrong way to do it, so The Screaming O is here to give you some tips and tricks – and sex toy recommendations – to help make May even merrier.

This week we’re reminding you, our fans, to have sex with someone they love – yourselves! – and make it a very special date. There’s no one more important in your life than you, so treat yourself like the king or queen you are and turn up the heat a tad with a special mini vibe that will turn every masturbation session into a special event. So set the scene, sprinkle some petals, and turn down the lights in anticipation for a very special Masturbation Month celebration.

The Soft-touch Bullet is a sophisticated twist on a classic mini massager with a powerful multifunction motor and smooth surface that glides across your skin like silk! Choose from three speeds and one pulsation function to tease and please and buzz with the kind of vibration you can’t find anywhere else.

Ladies – give your fingers a rest and put the Soft-touch Bullet to work. It’s petite and easy to hold (no carpal tunnel this time!) and feels great on all of your erogenous zones, and when you’re ready for the grand finale, just kick it into high gear and ride the waves. Your legs will wobble and your mind will muddle – but only for a moment. Until your next round, of course.

And gentlemen – you might think mini vibes are for the fairer sex, but let us recommend a Soft-Touch Bullet for the ol’ balls. There’s nothing quite like getting a little extra tingle down under while the main event goes down and the Soft Touch Bullet is the perfect compact companion to the palm of your hand. Set it on low and enjoy the soft rumble – you’ll thank us later.

Soft Touch Vibrating Bullets

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