How to Get Your Girl in the Mood!

There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to sex, and the first step is wanting it in the first place. But arousal and sexual desire are affected considerably by so many things: stress, hormones, emotions, time/place, fatigue…you get the idea. And while some men find it easy to break through those unsexy barriers to get it on, women have to work a lot harder to muck through the life-gunk to get their heads in the game.

Many men need only minutes to get hard and ready to go, while women can take up to 20 minutes (or longer depending on the day!) But you can help! Here are some quick tips for helping your lover get on your libido level and ready for some satisfying sex.

1. Make (and Take) It Easy

Women have a lot on their plates each day and often have to juggle multiple hassles at once just to make it home by 6 p.m. That can include work deadlines, kids (if applicable), pets (also if applicable), errands, doctor’s appointments, gym time, b.s. with the boss, rush hour traffic – and the to-do list doesn’t end when she walks in the door. All of these tasks take up valuable brain space, causing frustrating distraction from what she likely would rather be doing (i.e. having sex with you). So surprise her with three of the sexiest words a man can say:

“I got this.”

Pick up her dry cleaning. Deal with the grocery list. Clean the bathroom. Feed the baby. Whatever the task, she’ll feel loved and supported knowing that you thought ahead to handle stuff so she doesn’t have to. And that sense of relief may help make it easier for her to relax and get in the mood for something more than Netflix in bed.

DISCLAIMER: This is NOT a “do the dishes, get a BJ” type of reward system. Helping your partner is a thoughtful expression of love and should be done without expectation. Even the slightest sense of sexual entitlement may turn her off (rightfully so), so keep your intentions genuine, please.

2. Think About Her (and Tell Her So)

Women love to know that their partners are thinking of them, sexually or otherwise. But many men make the mistake of taking this expression too far (ex. dick pic during lunch break) and inadvertently ruin the moment. The sentiment is genuine, we’re sure, but sadly lost in the crassness of sending cellphone porn during work hours. So tone down the message!

Tell her you love her. Tell her you’re thinking about that time she did that thing that made your toes curl. Tell her you can’t wait to see her later. Tell her you want to rub her shoulders before bed. Get creative but try to avoid the gutter.

There’s something special about knowing that you’re on your partner’s mind and it isn’t necessarily because he’s horny and wants to get laid. It can inspire that giggle she might have made during the glorious honeymoon phase and might even inspire a fun response that could lead to the kind of back-and-forth text flirting you used to do in high school. Flirting is one of the first steps toward foreplay…and we all know what can happen from there!

3. Find a Sex Toy Made for Her Pleasure

Many people (women included) don’t know that most women need a little extra sumthin’ to reach orgasm while having sex. And while orgasm doesn’t have to be the ultimate goal, it’s always fun to try new and exciting ways to try to get there faster and easier. That’s where sex toys come in.

Sex toys come in all shapes, sizes, colors…you name it, but for this kind of pleasure we recommend shopping for something small and easy to use. (Especially if it’s her first sex toy.) Look for terms like “mini vibe,” “mini massager,” “bullet,” “clitoral vibe,” and “clit vibe” to find styles that are small, easy to hold, and perfect for stimulating her clitoris while you both get down. And if you know her favorite color or anything else that might help personalize her new vibe, definitely keep it in mind before making the final purchase.

The beauty of this kind of gift is that she can enjoy her new vibrator with you AND when she needs some private relaxation time. The more she masturbates and gets to know her body (and what she likes to do to it) the better your sex life will get. And knowing that you care enough about her pleasure to buy her a special sex toy might warm her heart enough to want to break it in the minute she opens the box. With your help, of course!

‘Ladies’ help these fellas out and comment on what gets you in the mood.

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The Screaming O Named 2015 Sex Toy Company of the Year!

Jan. 22, 2015

Well look at that, The Screaming O was named this year’s Sex Toy Company of the Year by the biggest media organization in the industry – and now it’s time to celebrate!

This award is reserved for companies that exceed expectations with product design, manufacturing and overall reputation, and this year The Screaming O was chosen as the industry leader! We pride ourselves on our product design and quality control, and this award shows that our hard work is paying off and appreciated by the world!

The Screaming O put several new processes in place to ensure streamlined development, production and shipping and went way outside the box to come up with designs and styles that serve the needs and expectations of our fans. And the response has been incredible – we’ve created four unique stretchy cock rings, some with double isolation designs and others with extended motors for improved clitoral stimulation. And our new Screamin Demon premium silicone mini vibe might be the most popular new product yet!

One thing’s for sure: The Screaming O is committed more than ever to bringing our fans the very best quality at the very best prices, because EVERYONE deserves better, more satisfying (and more fun!) sex.

So toast to The Screaming O, all our supporters and the wonderful world of sex toys – it’s going to be a great year!

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The Screaming O Debuts Devilishly Intense ‘Screamin Demon’ Mini Vibe

Jan. 20, 2015

We’ve officially unleashed the Screamin Demon, so get ready for a devilishly intense time! This new mini vibe features premium silicone “horns” that flutter with vibration and cleverly cradle the clitoris for maximum sensation. And for fans of direct stimulation, the Screamin Demon features a firm pleasure bead between the “horns” at the base of the motor, which transfers the strongest level of vibration right where you want it. However you like it, this compact mini vibe makes it easy to explore and discover your favorite kinds of intimate mischief!

The reviews from our testing phase brought the kind of enthusiasm that made it clear we’ve got a winner – or maybe a sinner? – on our hands, and we can’t wait for you to experience the Screamin Demon for yourselves!

With the push of a button, this compact mini vibe bursts to life with three vibration speeds plus a pulsation mode and sends vibes all the way to the tips of each “horn.” The Screamin Demon is as versatile as it is fun with multiple ways to unleash your inner nymph:

• Tickle and tease the nipples and other sensitive erogenous for flirty foreplay!
• Spread the flexible ‘horns’ wide and run it along his penis for an enhanced blowjob!
• Hold the firm pleasure bead in place during intercourse for extra-intense clitoral stimulation!
• Take it into the bath and enjoy targeted vibration under water!

And as with all of our premium silicone pieces, the Screamin Demon is made of certified silicone to assure a quality, body-safe experience that everyone can afford – because everyone deserves better, more satisfying sex!

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Who knew getting laid could be so cute? We’ve officially unveiled the teeniest, tiniest mini vibe on the market just in time for the fall fornication season. Our new FingO Tips are small enough to hide in a pocket but powerful enough to provide essential stimulation right where it’s needed most. Simply stretch the band around your finger and place the tip comfortably in the divot to essentially upgrade your finger to sex toy status!

We decided to make a mini version of our top-selling FingO finger vibes to give couples a less conspicuous, low commitment mini vibe that engages every erogenous zone you can touch. These colorful micro vibes are so small, you might almost forget that you’re wearing them – until the grand finale comes, of course. Try it to relax, soothe and stimulate for pre-game foreplay, nipple massage, titillating teasing and full-contact clitoral vibration that’ll put her over the edge!

Plus, tiny FingO Tips are perfect for travel, on-the-go fun, and those sexy times when a full-size vibrator just won’t work out. Pop one in a pocket, purse or carry-on and at first glance, curious eyes will confuse the colorful packaging for pretty much anything other than a sex toy! And when you’re done, dispose of the evidence and get on with your day. No one will know a thing!

BONUS: You’ll be pleased to know that FingO Tips are made of the same quality phthalate-free silicone blend as The Screaming O’s top-selling and award-winning vibrating rings, but with a discreet and disposable design that makes FingO Tips as convenient as they are cute. So what are you waiting for?

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Mother’s Day is a time to appreciate all of the hard working women out there who’ve birthed, nurtured and supported their families through the thick and thin – it’s a 24/7 job with no vacation time, so give her the gift that keeps on giving: me-time!

Being a mom is rewarding, loving and a one-of-a-kind experience, so give her a gift that will help her get her groove back. Massagers and mini vibes are great for tired muscles and stressed-out minds, and chances are the mothers in your life could use a break – even a quick one – from their daily travails. So supplement the flowers, breakfast in bed, and bear hugs with a Screaming O surprise!

Check out the Women’s Pleasure Pack, an all-in-one gift filled with the most popular sex toys that women love. Inside she’ll find:

• The FingO mini vibe that fits comfortably on the end of any finger and turns her hand into her new favorite sex toy!
• Screaming O Climax Cream for stronger, more frequent orgasms and more satisfying sex with an all-natural formula that helps increase blood flow to her most sensitive areas.
• KissOboo KissOmint sexual enhancement balm – rub it on lips, nips and naughty bits for an invigorating tingle that helps turn her on fast!
• O Balm™ Stick, a discreet mini vibe that looks just like ordinary lip balm – something no mom leaves the house without. Plus it’s quiet and perfect for travel or on-to-the go thanks to its clever disguise!
• Replacement batteries to keep her new Screaming O mini vibes and discreet sex toys buzzing without fail!

Now we’re not saying you should buy this for your own mother, per se (unless you’re into that). Think of all the other strong women in your life who are full-time mothers and part-time superheroes and could use a special treat this Mother’s Day. Whether she’s your wife, partner, sister, best friend – they’re all sexy and they should know it. Need some other quick gift ideas? Try some of our other best-selling sex toys:

• The O Gee multipurpose customizable massager with a flexible core that bends to fit every woman’s unique shape. This patented design twists and contours any way she wants it for powerful clitoral or G-spot stimulation she’ll love.
• The Soft-touch Bullet is a sophisticated twist on a classic mini massager with a powerful multifunction motor and smooth surface that glides across her skin like silk! Choose from three speeds and one pulsation function to tease and please and buzz with the kind of vibration she won’t find anywhere else.
• The Studio Collection Lipstick Vibe is a discreet powerful mini vibe that looks like a tube of red lipstick so no one will know her secret. Its tip is soft with a “flex tip” design that feels incredible, and she can leave it in her handbag without anyone batting an eyelash. It looks that good!

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Today we celebrate Cinco de Mayo, a time we traditionally devote to honoring Mexican culture – but for most of us, we spend it downing tequila shots and getting into trouble.

Cinco de Mayo historically commemorates Mexico’s 1862 battle victory over France during the Franco-Mexican War and now it has evolved into an opportunity for vibrant festivals, parades and other Mexican traditions to take over the streets. And there’s nothing more traditional (at least in our world) than a super-powered Bullet sex toy from The Screaming O! It’s the best mini vibe for beginners and perfect to keep nearby for those spontaneous celebratory moments – and these waterproof massagers will keep buzzing no matter how wet you get!

So dust off your sombrero, fire up your margarita machine, and make your Cinco de Mayo celebration a little sexier with The Screaming O – cuz the party doesn’t truly start until someone gets laid. Now get to it!

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Tomorrow is International Women’s Day, a holiday that some of you might not have known existed until 10 seconds ago. On March 8, women around the world gather to celebrate their accomplishments while raising awareness of social, political and economic issues that impact women locally and internationally. Each year, the United Nations dedicates a particular theme to the day and this year’s is Inspiring Change, encouraging advocacy for positive advancement in all kinds of ways – from challenging social norms to motivating personal growth.

This theme hits our hearts especially deeply, as this kind of personal evolution is what drives The Screaming O. Inspiration for change starts with one; it takes just one person to ignite a conversation that links men and women with a united mindset and a common goal. Our common goal is to spread a positive message about female sexuality by making pleasure products fun and friendly for women of all lifestyles. It’s a philosophy that supports the foundation of The Screaming O, and we’re proud to be a part of tomorrow’s global celebration.

The first International Women’s Day was held in 1911 in five countries, which rallied more than a million men and women to campaign for the right to work, vote, and to end discrimination. Now it’s an official holiday in more than 27 countries, with events that include men in the celebration and encourage them to honor the various women in their lives – mothers, daughters, sisters, colleagues, wives, and more.

Some men like to celebrate by gifting the special women in their lives with small tokens of appreciation, and since we like to push the envelope a tad, we suggest making sure those small tokens of appreciation vibrate.

Because there’s nothing more empowering than feeling comfortable and confident from the inside out, and The Screaming O makes it easy to explore, experiment and celebrate safely – and have fun doing it!

So ladies: Give yourself the power of pleasure and own your intimate rights. Pick a colorful mini vibe for yourself or choose a vibrating ring or couples sex toy to enjoy with your partner and do your part to destroy the stigma that surrounds female sexuality. Remember, it starts with one!

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The Screaming O is pleased to introduce our brand new advanced, super-powered Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullets, our latest sleek sex toy design that combines form, function and fashion to create your new favorite bullet vibe!

Each powerful, four-function vibe features a smooth soft-coat finish that glides across your skin like silk in five vivid jewel tone hues that inspire you to match your new Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullet to your mood – or even your shoes!

Our single-speed Bullets are considered one of the most powerful on the market and have remained on the top-seller list since their debut, so we set out to create the ultimate advanced compact bullet vibe technology. We designed our Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullets with a silky finish, vivid jewel tones, and three powerful vibration speeds plus a pleasing tease pattern to give you everything you could ever want in a supreme Screaming O bullet vibe!

Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullets combine the power of The Screaming O’s original Bullets with the tease and please action of a four-function vibe to create the ultimate micro bullet. Each Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullet features a super-charged motor that buzzes at three powerful speeds and one bonus pulse pattern with a whisper-quiet hum that no one will hear.

See them for yourself! Each Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullets is packaged in elegant black foil “get ‘em and go” pouches that allow each mini vibe to be switched on in the package so you can experience every level before you buy. Smart, right? Start shopping!

New Soft-Touch, Multifunction Bullets are available in vivid Red, Purple, Blue, Pink and Black jewel tones – choose your favorite or take home all five to complete your Screaming O ensemble!

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Unless you’re living in Alaska or in a cave somewhere, chances are it’s pretty darn hot outside – too hot to do a whole lot of anything other than sitting still and eating Popsicles.

But you have errands to do, dogs to walk, and sex to have so The Screaming O thought we could offer a few tips for ways to keep cool in the heat without losing an ounce of your mojo!

1. Have Sex at Sunset

While the sun beats down on us all day long all we can think about is feeling any sensation other than heat. There’s no way we’re going to subject ourselves to the broiling oven that is a bedroom without air-conditioning and we certainly don’t want to hotbox the backseat of a Honda – so where on Earth are we going to get it on without suffering heat stroke?

Well we recommend practicing patience and, as soon as the sun starts to set, clear your schedules for some sexy times. Nothing beats the feeling of a cool breeze as dusk turns to evening and if you’re looking to avoid getting arrested for boning in a public park, open all of your windows and let the refreshing air blow through the house as you get down to business. It’ll be like you’re out in the wilderness under the evening sky…but without all the brambles, bug bites and arrest warrant!

2. Bring a Vibe to the Pool

Some of us are fortunate enough to have a pool, or at least access to someone else’s. And if that’s the case, and that “someone else” happens to be an attractive member of the opposite sex, why not make it a true play date?

Sex in the water can be fun, sure. But have you had vibrating sex in the water? There are so many mini vibes and sex toys made to buzz for hours under water and the key is to find one that’s easy to hide in your beach bag and quiet enough to keep any Peeping Toms from guessing what’s going on.

Our recommendation: The FingO finger-fitted mini vibe, a portable vibrator that loops around your finger and buzzes discreetly wherever to touch. That means even if your partner in crime never shows up for your pool session you can always take care of yourself – and come back for seconds.

3. Add Ice Cubes

There’s nothing quite like chugging an ice cold drink when it’s a million degrees outside and even when the tasty stuff is gone, sucking on those ice cubes is a great way to stay cool until a refill arrives.

Are you thinking what I’m thinking?

Ice cubes are a super-fun way to add a little teasing foreplay to an ordinary sex session. PLUS they’re freezing cold and bound to chill you and your partner out with just one touch! The fun part is finding new ways to incorporate ice cubes into the mix before they all melt into puddles.

Our recommendation: Keep an ice cube in your mouth and as it slowly melts away, kiss your partner’s mouth, neck, shoulders, nipples…and make your way down to the sweet spot for some serious refreshment!

4. Take a Cold Shower

Yeah, this one is obvious. But it’s a classic for a reason. When it’s too hot to think and way too hot to wear normal clothing, there’s really only one way to instantly cool off and get your head on straight. Hop into a freezing cold shower and let the water wash away your woes!

Bring a buddy into the bathroom so you can rejuvenate your senses and get you ready and excited to get back to business. And when you get sticky and sweaty all over again (which will happen if you do it right) simply hop right back into the shower to chill out. You’ll already be naked so you’ve already saved yourself some time and effort.

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Without a sweetheart or special date it’s easy to feel down and out. But what we’ve all forgotten is how important it is to love ourselves, and what better time of year to do it than Cupid’s special day?

Because only you know what you truly want and need, and heck, if it’s a bunch of red roses, that’s totally cool. But ladies, when it comes to self-love on Valentine’s Day there’s only direct path to your heart, and we’ve got the tools you need.

How about a mini vibe in one hand, a glass of champagne in the other, and some lube nearby in case it turns into an all-nighter?

And to help you on your way, here are 5 top tips to guarantee you a Valentine’s Day that will bring you precisely what you want:

1. Treat Yourself – to a New Sex Toy! There are so many stylish and sexy toys out there, (and may we recommend a stylish piece from The Studio Collection?) Once you see how clever these little vibes can be you surely can find room in the budget. That lipstick right there, and the mascara next to it – they’re not actually cosmetics. Turn them on, feel them buzz, and get ready for a very special night in. You’ll never look at your makeup bag the same way.

Read the full article from the Sexy Cupid blog here.

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