The Best Ways to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship

Sex toys have become as common a conversation piece as the weather, but it’s still tricky to ask our partners whether or not they’d be down to try a cock ring or mini vibe. Sex toys can be intimidating, almost scary, to those of us who’ve never dreamed of putting something with a motor near our nether regions. And others associate sex toys with filling some kind of void or fixing an inadequacy in our current sexual situations, which are NOT good feelings for foreplay.

Fortunately, there are ways to side-step the insecurities and taboo that sex toys can bring, and we’ve compiled some of our favorite and most effective tips just for you!

1. Use Your Words
“But we don’t NEED one.” Heard this before? It’s not uncommon for men or women to feel as though sex toys are made to take the place of human interaction and body parts, but almost every sex toy on the planet can be enjoyed as a couple. So keep that in mind when you’re thinking about how to broach the subject and be sure to include your partner in the idea.

“I read that using a vibrator while we have sex can help me orgasm faster! I’d love to try that tonight!”

“I think it’d be super-hot to wear a butt plug next time we’re together – what do you think?”

“Thinking about you using a sex toy makes me so horny – can we try one sometime?”

The most important goal is to make sure your partner understands that sex toys are sexual enhancements – NOT replacements – and that whatever new gadget or gizmo makes it into the bedroom is for both of your pleasures. These kinds of intimate products add sensations and stimulation in ways our fingers and bodies simply can’t, and that’s what makes them so exciting – and SO worth trying.

2. Shop Together
Shopping is a treat for some and a drag to others, but when it comes to picking out something sexy to use together, you HAVE to check out your options as a team! If you or your partner isn’t part of the selection process, one of you will miss out on an important bonding experience that helps set the scene (and the mood) for what might happen later behind closed doors. Maybe she would have liked the blue vibrator instead of the pink. Or maybe he would have wanted to try that cock ring you saw but didn’t buy.

Perusing the shelves of lingerie, cock rings, mini vibes and other sexy playthings gives you both the opportunity to explore and see what catches your eye – you might be surprised at what strikes you!

Plus, shopping together gives you both a chance to learn a little more about each other’s curiosities and kinks, which builds intimacy almost as fast as anticipation. And once you get comfortable shopping for sex gear together, heading to the store (or even simply scrolling through adult shopping sites online) can feel like foreplay without anyone’s clothes even hitting the ground.

3. Start Small
If you’re new to sex toys, or if your partner is open but still not convinced, it might be a good idea to start with the basics before moving onto something next-level. Think about what you’re curious to try together (Anal play? Clit stimulation during doggy style? Maybe a vibrating ring?) and check out your options. Some products are made to be disposable, something you can try once to see if you like it – and then toss if you don’t. Most sex toys have beginner-level versions that are reusable but cost a lot less, which takes some of the pressure off of choosing the perfect one.

Stretchy one-size-fits-most cock rings are low-cost, low-commitment, and typically easier for beginners to try. Bullets, mini vibes, and small hand-held massagers are great starter vibrators for stimulating the clitoris, nipples, testicles, taint – pretty much anywhere that feels sensitive to the touch. Vibrating tongue rings or vibrating penis rings are also fun and inexpensive options for those of us just starting out on our sex toy adventures.

Most of us wouldn’t jump in the deep end before learning to doggy paddle or put the pedal to the metal during a DMV driving test. The same goes for sex toy shopping: ease your way into it and try to keep the pace of your partner. Work your way up to the next level as a team and enjoy the ride along the way!

4. Sharing is Caring
No matter what the package might say, most vibrators can – and SHOULD! – be used on men AND women. Mini vibes are great for her clitoris, but don’t forget that he might like to feel the buzz on his balls during a blowjob. And vibrating rings feel great worn around the penis and testicles, but try wrapping the ring around a finger and touching her nipples or teasing her lips.

CAUTION: This is only safe to do when you and your partner have been tested and declared STI-free, because you’ll inevitably be swapping more than just each other’s sex toys while you’re at it. And please keep in mind that anything that goes in or around your anal area should be washed thoroughly before it goes anywhere near the rest of your body to avoid spreading icky bacteria where you don’t want it! #themoreyouknow

5. Learn by Doing
No one wants to be schooled in the bedroom (even if we could use a tip or three) and that especially applies when sex toys are part of the plan. One of you might know a little more about vibrators than the other, but don’t take on the teacher role just yet – unless that’s part of the fantasy, of course!

Open each toy and read the instructions together. Part of the fun is checking them out, turning them on, and watching each other’s faces change as you experiment with what feels good, what feels “meh,” and what feels “ohmigoddontstop.”

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The brand new My Secret Screaming O is finally here! This super-cute and super-stealth set of mini vibrators looks just like makeup and make it easier than ever for women to travel with their favorite toys! These affordable sex-toys-in-disguise boast powerful vibration with whisper-quiet motors that keep the experience delightfully discreet – we promise that keeping a secret has never felt this good!

It’s no secret that this new 3-piece line is going to become women’s new favorite set of sex toys, thanks to its vibrant pink-and-black color scheme reminiscent of some of the most popular makeup brands on the market. Each clever design is made using only the highest-quality body-safe materials with modern shapes that truly look like ordinary cosmetics…until you turn them on, of course!

My Secret Mascara Vibe features a vibration-magnifying Tingle Tip that amplifies sensations and targets stimulation for direct contact. My Secret Lipstick Vibe features a soft silicone Flex-Tip that smoothly glides across sensitive zones like silk! Both styles feature a three-speed plus pulse motor and 100% waterproof construction so ladies can freshen up in the bathtub or pool.

And the super-compact My Secret Lip Balm buzzes at one strong speed and transfers vibration through a soft and squishy silicone blend tip shaped for ultimate pleasure. With a simple twist-bottom control, this mini vibe is perfect for any-sized purse or pocket.

Whether at home or on the go, women can get that fresh-faced look almost anywhere without anyone batting an eyelash! These covert vibes are portable, compact and travel-friendly, which means making trips through TSA will be a satisfying breeze!

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Sex can (and probably should) be a priority when you (or your partner) are dealing with the effects of breast cancer – from treatment to trouble sleeping, cancer can cause all kinds of inconvenient, uncomfortable and emotionally draining obstacles, but that doesn’t mean sex has to be off the table.

The American Cancer Society assures us that breast cancer treatment doesn’t affect women’s physical ability to orgasm – it’s just a little trickier to “get there” – which is GREAT news. Because orgasms are good for your health and can help with everything from pain relief to brightening your mood and easing anxiety. So getting busy should be as high a priority as getting to your appointments on time, right?

But it’s no secret that sex – at least, the kind of sex we’re accustomed to – is different when your body is experiencing the side effects of breast cancer treatment. While there are some we can clearly see (mastectomies and surgeries rendering breasts tender or desensitized, extreme fatigue, etc.), others are less obvious but incredibly common (vaginal dryness, muscle tightness, loss of libido). Fortunately there’s something you can do about it – and the solutions are as affordable as they are easy to try!

1. Moisturizer…for Your Vagina.

Dryness is tough to deal with whether or not sex is in the picture, but there are affordable moisturizers on the market that not only replenish moisture to delicate skin, but also can help maintain a healthy pH and even help grow healthy bacteria down below. There are no hormones or chemicals that will get in the way of your regular health routine – just look for brands that have organic ingredients, no parabens, no glycerin, no estrogen and are fragrance-free. You can order most of them online!

2. Lots of Lube.

Before breast cancer, it’s possible that you or your partner were proud of your natural waterworks, so to speak, and had no trouble keeping things slick and smooth. But the body’s natural ability to lubricate – no matter how turned on you are – is dramatically affected by cancer treatment, and that’s where lube comes in. The skin in and around the vulva is super sensitive and delicate and any friction, rubbing or chafing not only hurts but can also promote infection. So try an all-natural water-based or silicone-based lubricant and see how much better sex can feel! No need to start with something fancy; many drugstore brands have natural versions of their classic lubricants, so start at your local pharmacy!

3. Mini vibes.

Sex toys come in all shapes, sizes and prices, but don’t let fancy gadgets and technology distract you. These little vibrators make orgasms come easier and faster whether you’re solo or with a partner and you don’t need bells and whistles to help get the job done. A simple bullet or mini vibe is all you need and there are many different colors and styles to choose from – and some of the best beginner vibes cost less than $10! So shop around and see what styles appeal to you the most. Think of it as a sexy gift for yourself!

4. Kegels & Intimate “Exercise.”

Your muscles may be tense or totally lax, depending on how your experience has affected your physical self, and they can get in the way of intimacy. If you find your vagina feels too tight to comfortably fit something inside, you may benefit from some “exercise” from the relaxation realm. As a form of foreplay, try breathing meditation or something you can focus on to calm and soothe your body and put your mind at ease. Try the technique in tip #2 here! You’ll be surprised at how much easier it is to have sex afterward!

But if you feel your vagina could use a little strengthening, there are simple exercises you can try that not only will help tighten your vagina, but all help make your orgasms stronger. You’ve probably heard of kegels: squeeze your vagina as though you’re trying to stop yourself from peeing. Then release. Squeeze, hold, then release. There are sex toys out there that can add weights to your routine, too, if you want to take your kegel game to a higher intensity, but those cost money…and regular kegels are completely free! And the best part? You can do them anywhere. (We’re doing them right now!)

5. Sexual Enhancement of the Herbal Kind.

There are many affordable and safe sexual enhancement creams on the market that use natural ingredients to help increase sensitivity and make sex feel better. Some sexual stimulant balms use peppermint or cinnamon for a pleasant tingle wherever they touch, while others get a little more intense and actually help boost blood flow to your intimate areas. Creams with the amino acid L-arginine work within minutes and, when applied to the clitoris, can enhance and heighten sensations considerably. Check with your doctor first, just to be safe, and if he/she gives the green light, get to it!

Getting back into a groove doesn’t have to be an emotional or financial strain, and as you can see, some of these techniques cost no money at all. Keeping an open mind and open heart is the most important part of the process, and the intimacy and love you build while working together is the most potent and natural sexual enhancer on the planet. So have fun and get to it!

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You know that healthy glow that all these Jersey Shore/Lindsay Lohan fans have been searching for all these years? Well it’s not gonna come from a Neutrogena bottle and it sure as heck isn’t going to blast out of some spaceship torpedo tanning booth pod.

Just pick up all 4 O Glow Bullets and watch your skin come alive!

They’re tiny, pack a punch and let you take mood lighting to levels that old-fashioned candle light can’t – these puppies are even waterproof so feel free to toss a couple in the tub and start buzzing in the bath!

One of my friskier friends who shall remain nameless (ends with Nifer…starts with Jen) takes it so seriously, she’s named her favorite masturbation method.

Meet the Purple Haze: run a bath, fill it with a ton of bubbles (she likes the old lady lilac scents…but I digress) and then toss in 4 purple O Glow Bullets. Turn the lights off and have fun feeling around under the water and to see what you might find.

Yeah, I know. She’s hardcore.

I’d rather make some kind of kaleidoscope thing happen with all the colors in one bathtub…or maybe a swimming pool.

Hmm…well if each O Glow Bullet lasts an hour, and there’s blue, red, purple and pink to choose from…how long will it take for the train to get from point A to point B without stopping?

Ah, who cares? I was never good at math anyway. I’m more into the…uh…physical sciences.

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We released our top secret new toy line at the Adult Novelty Expo this year, and once we had all of our banners and signs up, the cat was most definitely out of the bag, the new vibrating mini – Buddies are here.

Our 25-foot banner asked the universe “Who’s Your Buddy? Come Find Out at The Screaming O” and this caught the attention of pretty much everyone in the building. And when they came up to us to find out what the deal was, we handed each person a personal vibrator each in a different animal shape.

They paraded around the show with their Buddy stowed in their pockets but a flashy button shining bright on their lapels, which was enough to get anyone who hadn’t gotten the memo wondering where they can get their own.

Most people chose their own sex toy, but a select few had theirs personally selected by The Scream Team. They thought I should have the bunny. That might be because of my extracurricular activities…but not sure. But once the little Bunny Buddy turned on, it didn’t matter WHY they chose it. Those little ears started to tingle everywhere they touched and that, my friends, is all she wrote.

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LOS ANGELES – Red hot superstar Alektra Blue will be turning up the heat at the equally red hot sex toy manufacturer The Screaming O™ booth at Erotica LA this weekend.

Blue will be meeting fans and even jump up on the main stage during the Screaming Orgasm contests hosted by Screaming O spokesmodel and superdiva Nikki Benz Friday, June 22-24 at the Los Angeles Convention Center.

The Screaming O get the crowd screaming with all the best in sex toys, vibrating rings and mini vibrators, so get some!

The Arizona native, FAME award winner for Favorite Rookie Starlet, and 2007 AVN Best New Starlet of the year nominee will be signing autographs and posing for photos in the booth.

“I’m always excited to be meeting the fans, and I get free cockrings!” beamed Blue.

“We couldn’t be happier; Alektra’s star is on the rise and we’ve worked with her before at a previous show and think she is really terrific,” a The Screaming O representative said.

Blue will be available for the full length of the show to meet her fans, sign autographs and photos.

“I’ve really been looking forward to meeting all of my fans at the show,” Blue said.

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