Cancer affects every aspect of your – and your partner’s – life and it can feel almost impossible to find the time, energy and desire for intimacy of any kind. Treatment can be intense and invasive and cause physical changes in the body that, matched with the emotional strain, often extinguish any sense of sexual fire that might still be glowing inside. But while the physical and psychological effects are incredibly real, they don’t have to be barriers in the bedroom. There are a multitude of tools that women can use to help them build, maintain and celebrate their sexuality during every stage of cancer treatment.

The brain is women’s No. 1 most important sex organ. When the mind is distracted, diverted or clouded by stress, sex is often the last activity on her to-do list and orgasms simply don’t come easily – or at all. Logically, cancer causes myriad emotional stresses (depression, anxiety, guilt, fear) but it also wreaks havoc on a woman’s sexual desire, self-worth, self-esteem, and the physical changes that come before, during and after treatment make many women feel simply unsexy.

And even with a positive mindset, the physical effects of cancer can make sex difficult, even painful, which leaves some women feeling “broken” and unequipped to deal with the way their bodies have changed. Vaginal dryness, painful intercourse, nausea, extreme fatigue, loss of sensation – they’re all very common and very real obstacles to navigate alongside what can be an incredibly scary disease. Especially when mastectomy or other surgeries are involved.

But the good news is that, while the mind and body undergo change, your orgasms probably won’t! The American Cancer society reports that almost all women maintain their orgasmic abilities after treatment and that it may be as easy as before – it just takes practice. Fortunately, the experimentation process alone is a wonderfully effective way to build and strengthen intimacy with a partner, even if intercourse or orgasm isn’t the end result!

So as you prepare to make pleasure practice a regular part of your life, here are some important factors to keep in mind as you learn new ways to enjoy a healthy sex life:

• Treatment can be exhausting, so schedule sex for times you feel most rested. Your partner can help with chores and other tiresome activities around the house to help you preserve energy. Just avoid getting busy after eating a heavy meal.

• Getting in the mood can feel like a major feat, so try new forms of foreplay to help put your mind in the game. Sexy music, erotica or even soft porn can get juices flowing, and sensual massage is an intimate and effective way to relax, soothe nerves, and feel comfortable to move on to the next steps. A warm bath or shower with scented candles or oils also can help stimulate the senses – especially if you invite your partner to join in.

• Play with positions. Before treatment, reverse cowgirl or doggy style may have been your go-to’s, but they put incredible strain on joints and energy levels. Try positions that require less physical exertion: lie on your side (spooning-style) or on your back with your hips at the edge of the bed. These positions help you feel deep and satisfying pleasure while keeping you and your partner intimately close, and make it easier for your body to relax and get into the groove.

• Sex might feel different and you may need additional stimulation to help you feel pleasure in the ways you’re accustomed to, especially when it comes to having an orgasm. Sex toys are a fun and effective way to give your (or your partner’s) fingers a rest and can even enhance sensations in an entirely new way, making orgasm come easier and faster. Try massaging a mini vibrator on your clitoris during foreplay or in certain sex positions you find comfortable and see how you feel. You might be surprised by how much you (and your partner!) love it.

• Lubrication is key for comfortable and pleasurable intercourse, but chemotherapy, stress and so many other factors (dehydration, distraction, menopause) get in the way of your vagina’s usual waterworks. An all-natural water-based or silicone-based lubricant is recommended to keep sex slick and smooth while preventing any kind of chafing, rubbing and general discomfort that vaginal dryness can cause.

• Sexual pleasure beyond intercourse can satisfy both partners when penetration just isn’t an option. Intimacy is so much more than penetration and the sense of touch – and being touched – can be incredibly erotic while connecting you and your partner (literally and figuratively) at a different level. Caress, hug and massage the skin and use hands to stimulate sensitive areas while being mindful of areas to avoid. The neck, forearms, stomach, inner thigh and even feet are erogenous zones not to be missed! And remember: orgasms don’t have to be your goal.

• Sex during chemo can require extra precautions: When blood counts are low, avoid intercourse and oral stimulation as they can spread bacteria and increase risk of infection. Birth control is a must if pregnancy is possible.

• Communicate what you’re feeling, both emotionally and physically. You’re both learning how to be intimate with each other in a completely new way and it’s important to give each other space to share concerns, feelings and ideas. Easier said than done, but it feels less scary each time you open up.

• A good sense of humor can help you get through some of the most awkward, uncomfortable and embarrassing parts of the process. It’s OK to laugh at sounds, smells or situations that are way out of your comfort zones – you’re in it together (in more ways than one) and you’ll feel stronger with every chuckle.

There are a wide variety of trusted resources available online and at various treatment centers to learn more about sexual health before, during and after cancer – the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute (one of the nation’s leading cancer hospitals) even devotes an entire program to it. Don’t feel afraid to ask your doctor for more information; sex and intimacy is one of the most common concerns of women and couples undergoing treatment. You’re not alone: breast cancer affects 1 in 8 U.S. women at some point in their lives, and preserving the intimate relationships they hold with their partners – and especially themselves – is key to maintaining a healthy and happy sense of wellbeing during one of the most stressful times in life.

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We’re heading to satellite radio tomorrow to join adult starlets Ginger Lynn and Christy Canyon on Radio Sex’s “You Porn” (channel 102) for a special show dedicated to sexy holiday shopping. Screaming O resident sexperts will give one-on-one tutorials for how to pick the perfect pleasure product while giving listeners a sneak peek at the hottest must-have sex toys of the season with a live call-in segment fans won’t want to miss!

It’s not easy to choose the right sex toy – especially when shopping for that special someone – so co-hosts Lynn and Canyon invited the team to help fans navigate the scene. With shopping tips and bedroom tricks, we’ll share what’s hot and how to use them, including recent media sensation the MustachiO™, the world’s first vibrating mustache released just in time for the Movember celebration. Also on their naughty-but-nice list are the AmigO™s, three colorful mini vibes featuring reusable silicone sleeves shaped to amplify sensations and keep her warm all winter long.

“The Screaming O mini vibes and accessories can blow your mind without blowing your budget and truly are the gifts that keep on giving,” The Screaming O representative said. “The studio will literally be a-buzz with all of the new vibrating gifts and goodies we’re bringing along and we can’t wait to see the looks on Ginger Lynn’s and Christy Canyon’s faces when they see what’s in Santa’s sack. There’s no better way for fans to start the holiday shopping season than with a titillating tutorial from The Screaming O!”

This very special holiday episode of “You Porn” goes live on air tomorrow at 1 p.m. PST on SiriusXM’s Radio Sex channel 102. Fans are invited to call in (1.800.774.2388) and ask the famous porn stars and their Screaming O co-hosts any sex toy questions that come to mind – tune in for details and instructions. We can’t wait to hear from you!

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The Screaming O is heading east this weekend for this year’s EXXXotica Expo in Atlantic City, N.J., to bring a little buzz and a lot of fun to one of the biggest events in the country dedicated to love and sex.

Fans will be riding the Screaming O vibe all weekend as they meet their favorite porn starlets, learn tips and tricks from burlesque and pole dance experts, and watch some of the sexiest stage acts this side of the hemisphere!

In between kink seminars, aerial ring performances by adult star Stoya, and readings from porn superstar Tera Patrick, The Screaming O will be on sale to all who want a little extra spring in their step. With vibrating cock rings, erection rings, colorful mini vibes and more Exxxotica will be Atlantic City’s go-to source for sexy toys that hit the spot!

Did you get your tickets yet?

http://ac.exxxoticaexpo.com/tickets/

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The Screaming O is joining forces with the adult industry’s boo-tiful starlets and VIP vixens to host the VIP room at the 18^th Annual Heaven & Hell Halloween Porn Bash Oct. 27 in glittery Hollywood,Calif.

All hell is set to break loose as hundreds of the city’s costume-clad elite get spooky and party the night away with Screaming O sexy goodies fueling the fire!

People call the annual Heaven & Hell Halloween Porn Bash the best porn party of the year, which makes sense seeing as though it’s packed with the sexiest superstars who make the magic happen in front of – and behind – the cameras!

 “The Scream Team knows how to party and Halloween in Hollywood is one of our favorite times of year,” The Screaming O representative said. “We’re excited to help host the 18th annual Heaven and Hell bash and take over two of Hollywood’s hottest nightclubs for an epic party full of tricks, treats and sex toys. This year’s Heaven and Hell event will be the ultimate ScreamOween showcase full of the kinds of screams you’ll beg to hear all night long!”

The Screaming O joins hosts Jeff Mullen, Scott David and Danny B with fellow sponsors HotMovies, Adam & Eve Pictures, Uncle Don’s Exotic Interludes, XPlay and All Media Play. A $5,000 costume contest, live DJs, and LED light show will be some of the night’s highlights.

 “We’re really excited to have The Screaming O on board again this year to co-sponsor the party – plus their sex toys are great,” Mullen said.

Porn stars set to party with the Scream Team include Asa Akira, Playboy Playmate Spencer Scott, Britney Amber, Bridgette B, Aubrey Addams, Kaylee Hilton, Anikka Albrite, Jenna J. Ross, Alexis Monroe, Jordana Heat, Mia Gold and nearly 200 more. Porn legend Ron Jeremy will act as Master of Ceremonies.

The 18^th Annual Heaven & Hell Halloween Porn Bash will take place Oct. 27 from 9 p.m.-3 a.m. at Roxbury and Hemingway’s, two of Hollywood’s hottest nightclubs. VIPs can enter in the adult industry entrance at 6356 Hollywood Boulevard.

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We did it again! The Screaming O took home another Marketing Campaign of the Year award from XBIZ, a media organization that covers all things adult industry. It’s our second marketing accolade from XBIZ and our FOURTH trophy recognizing our hard work promoting our top-selling sex toys!

The event was held at the Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, Calif., and was filled with glittery lights and flashbulbs with more than our fair share of scantily clad porn stars scrambling to get a look at our new Studio Collection.

Who knew how popular little cosmetics and lipsticks that secretly vibrate would be with even the most famous porn stars?!

“The Screaming O is honored to have won this award,” The Screaming O partner Keith Caggiano said. “Thanks to all those who voted for us. Marketing and merchandising is one of our specialties, and we can’t wait to show everyone what we have planned next!

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It’s one thing if you missed out on the Chicago shenanigans or just really love shenanigans. But if you didn’t make it out to L.A. Exxxotica last weekend, well…I dunno what to tell ya. There was an especially rowdy Screaming O Stage Show with a RealTouch contest that had prizes from yours truly and LoansForLooks.com.

We took over the love and sex expo with a ton of adult porn stars, with upward of 20,000 people flooding through the doors eager to see some boobs and take home some Screaming O sex toys. We’re known for our giveaways AND our good looks.

Some of Los Angeles’ sexiest ladies strutted their stuff on stage and moaned as loud as their little hearts could manage into the microphone. And you’d be surprised what kind of sounds come out of these petite princesses.

The Big Orgasm contest got a slew of women to come/cum on stage and shake what their mommas (or the mailman) gave them, and they all took home some Screaming O swag and prizes to keep the fun going even after the show shut down for the night.

Did you see all the porn stars and D-listers, too? L.A. is the hub for that, and don’t be surprised if you missed Erica Lynne from the Oxygen Network’s “The Bad Girls Club” and Phil Varone (formerly of Skid Row and Saigon Kick, and a star of “Celebrity Sex Rehab”) who showed up to sign DVDs.

There was a lot to stare at. We understand.

And exactly who are the adult stars from your dreams and the list of those attending? They include Sunny Leone, Stoya, Kayden Kross, Teagan Presley, Inari Vachs, Chanel Preston, Kagney Linn Karter, Lexi Belle, Monique Alexander, Andy San Dimas, Tanya Tate, Kirsten Price, Ann Marie Rios, Ron Jeremy, Allie Haze, Misty Stone, Tasha Reign, Breanne Benson, Amy Brooke, Melanie Rios, Lexi Swallow, Sarah Vandella, Jenna Haze, Alexis Texas, Joanna Angel and tons more.

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Well folks, we’ve got something big to show you.

At least, that’s what we told everyone roaming around the Erotica LA porn convention and without warning droves of sex fans flooded our booth and showed us what it means to really explode on the scene.

This was not only our first Erotica LA, it was our first adult show ever and we weren’t sure how the fans would react to our Original Vibrating Ring. It could either fall flat or blow everyone’s minds and, well…let’s just say there was a special cleaning crew hired to take care of The Screaming O’s aftermath.

The response from regular Joes and Jills, and even the porn stars, was astounding. It was as though everyone had been waiting for a powerful, easy to wear and easy to toss away vibrating penis ring. So when The Screaming O set up shop the crowd went wild, taking home handfuls of goodies and spreading the word like wildfire.

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