Sex Outside the Box! – How to Revive a Boring Sex Life

Sex is great and we all love to do it, but sometimes we get stuck in a bedroom rut that no amount of hugging, kissing and humping can get us out of. Fortunately you’re not alone – it can be super-easy to fall into a routine that takes some of the spontaneous excitement out of our favorite intimate past time. So to take some of the pressure off; we’ve compiled a list of quick and easy tip to help freshen up your love life fast. And you can try some of them tonight!

1. Switch Positions
Certain sexual positions feel better than others and oftentimes we tend to stick with the ones that we’re most confident with. Whatever the reason – maybe we like the way our bodies look in doggy style or we know that missionary gives us guaranteed orgasms – doing it the same way over and over can simply leave us wanting more.

We’re not talking trying a pretzel-like yoga position or trying every page out of the Kama Sutra, but even adding a simple position that you don’t usually try can bring enough variety to your sex session to amp up the intimacy.

So think about your routine. Is it missionary, spooning, then finishing on top? Or starting on top and finishing doggy? (Or is it missionary all the way every day?) Change the pattern and incorporate something you typically skip – you never know what a little spontaneity might do for your (or your partner’s) excitement level!

2. Do It Someplace New
We all know that sex typically happens in bed. (We hear some people even sleep there, too!) But what would happen if you laid down a blanket on the bathroom floor or used your (clean) kitchen table as a stage?

There’s something intensely erotic about doing the deed in unconventional places, but that doesn’t mean you have to think TOO far outside of the box. Subtle changes like doing it in front of a mirror or propping yourself up against the kitchen counter can be enough to feel like you’re banging for the first time.

Different surfaces, different sights, different scents – almost every sense gets triggered and inspired when you’re having sex in a new part of the house, so no need to pump yourself up about getting it on in public. That can come later, once you’re a little more comfortable with the idea, but keep in mind that it’s not exactly legal. So don’t tell anyone we told you to try it. [wink wink]

3. Try a Sex Toy
Sex toys are incredible sexual enhancers that can stimulate parts of the body that fingers, hands and other body parts simply can’t. Sex toys are new territory for some people and may be a bit intimidating at first, but fortunately there’s a plethora of products made for couples to enjoy together that enhance the experience for both. (Sex toys can actually make it easier for men and women to have orgasms – sometimes for the very first time!)

Vibrating rings and vibrating erection rings (also known as cock rings) are great for helping prevent premature ejaculation and helping him last longer during sex. The vibrating motor stimulates her clitoris at the same time so she can get closer to orgasm while he stays nice and hard.

Mini vibes and massagers are perfect additions to certain sex positions where some clitoral vibration can help her reach orgasm. Finger vibes are easy to use and don’t get in the way, while wand massagers and bigger vibrators can be a little bulky but help get the job done with much more power.

And there are all kinds of more advanced sex toys you can test out, too, like feather ticklers, anal plugs and sexy bondage gear as seen in Fifty Shades of Grey. So start with some beginner-level toys and work your way up to the big leagues – the journey will be super-fun and super-sexy, plus you and your partner will build even stronger intimacy along the way!

4. Role Play
This is a classic tip, but sometimes roleplaying can feel a little overwhelming to those of us who might be a little shy. So start simple – don’t worry about costumes and don’t try to pretend you’re some flirty cocktail waitress or suave piano man picking up a “stranger” at the bar.

Start by testing out a different technique – maybe you’re usually passive and let your partner make most of the moves. Make your mindset, “I know what I want, and all I want is YOU” and give your partner a thrill. (Just make sure you two talk about the idea first so you’re both on the same page!) Take charge and see how it feels to be a tad dominant.

Or try spending a night together where intercourse isn’t an option. Like you’ve just met and want to save the official “deed” for a special night. This will let you both get creative with pleasuring each other in ways that often can be forgotten when you’re so focused on the final “goal.” Touching, caressing, licking, cuddling – enjoy each other like you’ve only been dating for a week or two and see what kind of spark you might re-ignite.

5. Laugh
We take sex SO SERIOUSLY sometimes, to the point of almost forgetting to have FUN. And there are all kinds of understandable reasons for it – pressure to please, pressure to perform, self-consciousness and insecurity. We’ve all felt at least one (if not all) of those at some point while naked with a partner. But if you both can remember (and communicate) that you’re in it together as a team, you’ll find the stress and anxiety melt away and possibly even replaced with comfort and closeness.

Believe it or not, there’s a good chance that your partner is feeling the same way you are, so once you share what’s on your mind, you can embark on an entirely new journey together. And if something gets bumped, pinched, knocked over or super messy, all you need to do is laugh together. Because it’s not the end of the world; these kinds of snafus and unexpected events often can help make your sexual experiences unique and special – nothing like that fake stuff you see in the movies!

Have suggestions not listed? Share your tips on how to revive a boring sex life!

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You’ve got 8 days until the big V and there’s barely a week to find the perfect romantic gift that will leave a lasting impression on your relationship – and not your wallet.

Don’t get sucked into the Hallmark doldrums (steer clear of anything heart-shaped…unless it vibrates, we suppose) and stick to romantic gifts that really inspire romance. Earlier this week we told you to trade in your fancy flowers for a Big O vibrating ring, and this week we’ve got a sexy (but still romantic) gift idea that’ll leave both of you reaching for a towel.

Gift Exchange #2: Beach Day

If you’re one of the lucky few who aren’t snowed in and surrounded by icicles this season (Los Angeles, we’re eyeing you), then chances are you might be thinking about hosting a romantic beach blanket date this V-Day. Sounds like a good idea, and it certainly works in Annette Funnicello movies, but you’re not the only coastal couple who thought about celebrating in the sand.

No matter how bubbly the Champagne or how colorful the sunset, the romance quickly fizzles when you can hear that sappy couple cooing 10 feet to your left. And that other couple canoodling eight feet behind you. Besides, it only takes one grain of sand in your teeth (or some other orifice) to ruin the moment.

Instead, stay home with the O Wow Double Wammy, a vibrating ring with TWO super-powered bullets on each end – one on top for her pleasure and one on the bottom to stimulate the oft-ignored nether regions. We recommend that you take this couples toy into the shower and get wild in ways you could NEVER get away with at the beach. The O Wow Double Wammy is completely 100% waterproof and keeps buzzing no matter how wet you get – plus you can remove one or both of the bullets and use them as your own personal mini vibrator. A Valentine’s Day gift doesn’t get more versatile than that!

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You’ve got 10 days until the big V and chances are you haven’t really thought about it yet. (No shame, neither have we… until now, of course.) But that gives you time to skip the usual routine – flowers, candy, glittery baubles – and show Hallmark that you’ve moved onto bigger and better things.

And that’s why we’re here! For the next week or so, The Screaming O will show you how to trade a traditional present in for a truly memorable romantic gift that 99% of the time ends with an “O” face. Sounds good, right?

Gift Exchange #1: Flowers

Flowers are pretty, and everyone loves a fresh bouquet – but they’re a hassle to keep alive. They wilt and flop, and if there’s a cat in the house, your once-beautiful blossoms will become a late-night snack (and early-morning mess) before you have a chance to enjoy them.

Plus, a dozen roses don’t come cheap, so trade them in for a Big O – a gift that keeps on giving and gives you way more bang for your buck.

The Big O vibrating ring helps bring couples closer (literally!) by enhancing their sexual experience with powerful vibration and male enhancement, all in one compact shape. With a vibrating motor specially positioned for her pleasure and a stretchy erection ring that keeps him harder longer, you and your loved one are in for a memorable night…or morning…or afternoon. You’ll never think about sex the same way again, and you’ll probably want to stock up on batteries to keep the buzz going way after V-Day is done. The Big O will bring the spark back to your relationship – and keep it there – way longer than any fancy flowers can.

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Vibrating rings are your new best friend – you just don’t know it yet. They make sex feel better (especially for her) and if you’re looking for something to put the spark back into your sex life then it’s high time you strap one of these around your junk.

Worn at the base of your shaft, these rings have a little vibrator that tingles against her clitoris each time you move and gets her that much closer to orgasm. A majority of women need this extra “zing” to get there and vibrating rings are a fun, easy and hands-free way to bring it.

(And the mere fact that you have a vibrating ring and are excited to try it – all in the name of her pleasure – will be enough to rev her engine and get the night started right.)

FUN FACT: Stretched around your shaft and balls, vibrating rings actually make your junk look BIGGER. Need we say more?

Now that you’re in the mood and ready to ride, follow these easy steps to make sure you and your gal have the best sex ever:

HINT: Put the vibrating ring on BEFORE your penis is erect. This is important! The ring only starts to work as your penis becomes engorged and ready for action.
1. Remove the vibrating ring from the package and pull to stretch. That way you can see what you’re working with, and get the ring “warmed up” before you put it on.
2. Use some compatible lubricant – do not use silicone lube if your vibrating ring is made of silicone! – so the ring stretches smoothly and comfortable on your skin.
3. Place your shaft and testicles through the ring and slide down all the way to the base.
4. Position the vibrating motor at the top of the shaft so that it makes contact with the clitoris with each thrust.
5. As you get aroused you’ll notice your “package” start to grow and look bigger. BONUS!
6. Now it’s time to enjoy it and have some fun! Don’t forget to try it out with all of your favorite sex positions to see which feels best for you both!

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We all know how important sex is to maintaining a healthy relationship, yet couples around the world have trouble finding ways to keep their partners satisfied and build stronger bonds in the bedroom. But that’s where a new WE TV show called “Marriage Bootcamp: Bridezillas” – and The Big O Glow vibrating ring – come into play!

When we think of boot camps, we imagine drill sergeants and sweating faces and sex certainly doesn’t come to mind. But this special boot camp is devoted to inspiring healthier, happier marriages and puts the idea of fast and effective treatment in the form of an addictive reality show. And The Screaming O made a special appearance on last week’s episode dedicated to all things sex!

Husband-and-wife counselor team Jim and Elizabeth Carroll took each couple on a field trip to an adult store to explore how The Screaming O and other intimate accessories could change their sex lives forever. And after introducing the couples to the idea of being playful in the bedroom in this special episode, the group headed to Susie’s Delights adult shop for some sexy suggestions.

“This is a [vibrating] ring,” the store clerk said, holding The Screaming O Big O Glow up for all to see. “He puts it on him and becomes a human vibrator.”

Popular for its erection-enhancing fit, the Big O Glow features a bright LED light that flashes and glows as its multifunction motor pulsates and vibrates. Couples grow closer as they experiment with steady vibration or multifunction pulsation and bask in the glow of their newly illuminated sex lives. The Screaming O helps couples make sex more fun!

“A healthy sex life is crucial for real intimacy and is a key ingredient for almost every successful marriage,” counselor Jim Carroll said.

If you haven’t seen it yet, be sure to tune into the new smash hit “Marriage Bootcamp: Bridezillas” featuring five couples made famous by their appearances on guilty pleasure “Bridezillas” and now in need of relationship repair. The show airs Fridays at 9 p.m. on WE TV. Check local listings for more details.

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