Sex Outside the Box! – How to Revive a Boring Sex Life

Sex is great and we all love to do it, but sometimes we get stuck in a bedroom rut that no amount of hugging, kissing and humping can get us out of. Fortunately you’re not alone – it can be super-easy to fall into a routine that takes some of the spontaneous excitement out of our favorite intimate past time. So to take some of the pressure off; we’ve compiled a list of quick and easy tip to help freshen up your love life fast. And you can try some of them tonight!

1. Switch Positions
Certain sexual positions feel better than others and oftentimes we tend to stick with the ones that we’re most confident with. Whatever the reason – maybe we like the way our bodies look in doggy style or we know that missionary gives us guaranteed orgasms – doing it the same way over and over can simply leave us wanting more.

We’re not talking trying a pretzel-like yoga position or trying every page out of the Kama Sutra, but even adding a simple position that you don’t usually try can bring enough variety to your sex session to amp up the intimacy.

So think about your routine. Is it missionary, spooning, then finishing on top? Or starting on top and finishing doggy? (Or is it missionary all the way every day?) Change the pattern and incorporate something you typically skip – you never know what a little spontaneity might do for your (or your partner’s) excitement level!

2. Do It Someplace New
We all know that sex typically happens in bed. (We hear some people even sleep there, too!) But what would happen if you laid down a blanket on the bathroom floor or used your (clean) kitchen table as a stage?

There’s something intensely erotic about doing the deed in unconventional places, but that doesn’t mean you have to think TOO far outside of the box. Subtle changes like doing it in front of a mirror or propping yourself up against the kitchen counter can be enough to feel like you’re banging for the first time.

Different surfaces, different sights, different scents – almost every sense gets triggered and inspired when you’re having sex in a new part of the house, so no need to pump yourself up about getting it on in public. That can come later, once you’re a little more comfortable with the idea, but keep in mind that it’s not exactly legal. So don’t tell anyone we told you to try it. [wink wink]

3. Try a Sex Toy
Sex toys are incredible sexual enhancers that can stimulate parts of the body that fingers, hands and other body parts simply can’t. Sex toys are new territory for some people and may be a bit intimidating at first, but fortunately there’s a plethora of products made for couples to enjoy together that enhance the experience for both. (Sex toys can actually make it easier for men and women to have orgasms – sometimes for the very first time!)

Vibrating rings and vibrating erection rings (also known as cock rings) are great for helping prevent premature ejaculation and helping him last longer during sex. The vibrating motor stimulates her clitoris at the same time so she can get closer to orgasm while he stays nice and hard.

Mini vibes and massagers are perfect additions to certain sex positions where some clitoral vibration can help her reach orgasm. Finger vibes are easy to use and don’t get in the way, while wand massagers and bigger vibrators can be a little bulky but help get the job done with much more power.

And there are all kinds of more advanced sex toys you can test out, too, like feather ticklers, anal plugs and sexy bondage gear as seen in Fifty Shades of Grey. So start with some beginner-level toys and work your way up to the big leagues – the journey will be super-fun and super-sexy, plus you and your partner will build even stronger intimacy along the way!

4. Role Play
This is a classic tip, but sometimes roleplaying can feel a little overwhelming to those of us who might be a little shy. So start simple – don’t worry about costumes and don’t try to pretend you’re some flirty cocktail waitress or suave piano man picking up a “stranger” at the bar.

Start by testing out a different technique – maybe you’re usually passive and let your partner make most of the moves. Make your mindset, “I know what I want, and all I want is YOU” and give your partner a thrill. (Just make sure you two talk about the idea first so you’re both on the same page!) Take charge and see how it feels to be a tad dominant.

Or try spending a night together where intercourse isn’t an option. Like you’ve just met and want to save the official “deed” for a special night. This will let you both get creative with pleasuring each other in ways that often can be forgotten when you’re so focused on the final “goal.” Touching, caressing, licking, cuddling – enjoy each other like you’ve only been dating for a week or two and see what kind of spark you might re-ignite.

5. Laugh
We take sex SO SERIOUSLY sometimes, to the point of almost forgetting to have FUN. And there are all kinds of understandable reasons for it – pressure to please, pressure to perform, self-consciousness and insecurity. We’ve all felt at least one (if not all) of those at some point while naked with a partner. But if you both can remember (and communicate) that you’re in it together as a team, you’ll find the stress and anxiety melt away and possibly even replaced with comfort and closeness.

Believe it or not, there’s a good chance that your partner is feeling the same way you are, so once you share what’s on your mind, you can embark on an entirely new journey together. And if something gets bumped, pinched, knocked over or super messy, all you need to do is laugh together. Because it’s not the end of the world; these kinds of snafus and unexpected events often can help make your sexual experiences unique and special – nothing like that fake stuff you see in the movies!

Have suggestions not listed? Share your tips on how to revive a boring sex life!

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Father Time is calling quits to 2013 and putting a 2014 banner on that famous baby, which means most of you will be spending tonight getting hammered while wearing party hats and sequins. So while you stock up on champagne, streamers and confetti, why not resolve to celebrate the New Year with a bang – and yes, we mean the sexual kind. It’s a resolution you shouldn’t have too much trouble keeping.

Nothing makes a more impressive “bang” than a sex toy, so this year make the conscious decision to stretch on a Big O and see what it does for his dick, or put a Studio Collection Vibrating Lipstick in her purse to get buzzed discreetly anytime temptation strikes. Be dedicated to being adventurous and start experiencing the kind of sex life that requires batteries.

So toast to a sexy 2014 with a vibrating ring around your beer or a Bullet vibe in your martini as you practice your countdown and decide whom you’re going kiss at midnight. Choose wisely, cuz if you’re lucky, you’ll be buzzing (in more ways than one) with that special someone by 12:15.

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Today is “Evaluate Your Life Day,” or as we at The Screaming O like to call it, “Evaluate Your SEX Life Day!” We love to celebrate every holiday that exists under the sun and occasionally a day will come along that entices us to pause, sit back, and ponder our life choices. Today is one of those days!

It’s all about you and your needs and desires today, so here are a few tips to help you on your way to having better sex and feeling more satisfied when you do!

1. Feeling in a sex life slump? Have you tried bringing a sex toy into the situation? The Screaming O was founded on creating innovative and fun adult novelties, vibrators and couples sex toys to enhance intimacy and inspire more satisfying sex lives – and our lineup has something for everyone.

Try a classic or O Glow Bullet for some external stimulation during sex – it might help you have an orgasm with your partner!

Stretch on a Screaming O Vibrating Ring, BigO cock ring, or one of our comfortable vibrating rings to give him a bit of a boner boost while providing some pleasant vibrations for you!

2. Looking to have some more…private time with yourself? Your fingers can only go so far, and The Screaming O has some fun, easy to use sex toys that’ll take your solo sessions to new levels of satisfaction.

Try the Ogee Twistee G-spot vibe for internal and external pleasure that you can customize however you please! Or give a Bullet Buddy a try – choose your favorite character and always have your sex buddy by your side!

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Barron’s online  reports that sales of memory foam mattresses have skyrocketed in the last decade with profit margins rising 20 percent in just eight years. And it makes sense – have you ever slept on one? The dense material molds to your body and, without the use of springy squeaky coils, offers your butt, hips and back the kind of support that only a solid bear hug once could.

But peruse the review sites online and you’ll find that fans of sexy times aren’t as gung-ho about Tempur-Pedics and their emulators. Why? Cuz while the material is malleable and soft under your body, it completely messes with your motion when you and your partner are ready to get it on with a nice deep thrust session.

The firmness of a regular mattress offers a necessary leverage that makes it easier to dig your knees in and pump, and the more you sink into the foam mattress’ lasting memory, the more you miss out on the nice “bounce” that can make the sex feel better.

Some reviewers even liken having sex on memory foam to fornicating on a ball of clay! Oof!

For those of you who’ve already dropped a few grand on that fancy European memory foam but don’t want to miss out on a satisfying sex life, don’t worry – The Screaming O is here!

Our collection of mini vibes, couples sex toys, cock rings and relationship tools are designed to be used and used again anywhere you go! All of our toys are compact and discreet enough to carry in a glove box, pocket or handbag so you can carry them with you when you need a break from your boring bed.

And our waterproof bullets, fingertip vibes, Octopus tickler, and more vibrate powerfully even under water – so when your bed won’t cut it, try the shower, bathtub or a secluded section of the beach!

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